Trying to know me

I’m looking for a long term relationship, I’m divorced, a mother/grand. 

I’m not a pic person, and not because of my thickness, I’m phat, so what...

I do have an attitude to go along with my thickness, but I try and and have the right attitude, and keep a positive attitude but a real bitch live deep in the shadows of my mind, how you treat me determines how I treat you so I try to take time to know you and you know me, we all have pet peeves...

Certain qualities, like weed smoker but not cigarettes, like children but not sexually, no pork, beef, or other land animals,  fish yes, vegan even better.

Know how to correct without criticism or name calling and not belittling in front of others, especially their friends. And some more stuff.

I want things in common, I like fishing, I want a man who want a garden and know how to cook and clean and do his own dirty laundry and fix his own plate and some more stuff.

I want someone who will accept me as I am and like my personality and character and will listen to me and answer a man that want leave me stranded with no way home. And some more stuff.